Answering your most asked questions.
Hi Reader,
Happy October (one of my favorite months) πππ§πΌββοΈ and I've got some of my favorite things (and people) to share.
Does it ever feel like you have to STOP the behavior, or it will only escalate? π© Youβre not the only one. ππΌ
But this thinking keeps us stuck in power struggles and misses what our kids really need. π±
ππΌ We are well-intentioned, but how do we stay firm in our limits while allowing our kids to have a voice in their lives?
If you're rushing to force limits because you don't know what else to do, there is so much good stuff going on this week to help.
π£ Answering your most asked questions.
First, did you know that I've been making Q&A videos to answer your #1 most-asked parenting questions on my YouTube Channel since 2013?
After a long hiatus, I'm getting back to my first passion - bringing you weekly tips to help you create the relationship you've always wanted with your child.
And with "shorts" being the new 'It" video - you don't have to spend a ton of time getting that burst of inspiration you need to get you through the day.
If you haven't subscribed yet, or if you didn't know I had this channel, get on over to the playlists and find yourself something comforting to watch!
π£ The Teen Code Summit is live this week!
70% of parents say they βstruggle to communicate meaningfullyβ with their teen.
Did you know that, Reader? That statistic shocked me! I mean, I know things were tough out there - but this was totally surprising.
The Speakers in this summit are excited to help us turn that around (I'm the Mom of a teen, too). So make sure to grab your spot because we're live now - Oct. 2-6th.
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When BrenΓ© Brown asked hundreds of 8th graders the difference between fitting in and belonging, some of their responses wereβ¦.
βNot living up to your parent's expectations.β
βNot being good at the same things your parents were good at.β
βYour parents 'not liking' who you are and what you like to do.β
You get where Iβm going here.
You love your teen so much.
βYou want the absolute best for them.
You want them to know they are always loved and accepted, but somehow, the lines of communication have turned into a very advanced game of Twister (you know, the game where you spin yourself into a series of contortionist moves).
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Think of this event as a virtual coffee date with two of your mama besties, sharing openly and honestly about their challenges and letting us in on their best tips and tools.
I'm attending (some of my favorite people are speaking), and I canβt wait to hear which conversation resonates most with you. π¬π
π£ Back to School Secrets
This training has been curated just for you. I've joined up with these powerhouses to help you unlock a smoother school year with the Back-to-School Expert Secret Series with Dayna Abraham over at Calm the Chaos Parenting.
- Discover engaging ways to help your child breeze through their homework so you all can enjoy more quality family time β even if they seem to find every reason to avoid their schoolwork.
β - Uncover the real reasons behind homework refusal to address them effectively, and help your child be ready and willing to learn β without the constant nightly homework battles around the dinner table.β
β - Learn straightforward steps to help your child manage their schoolwork so you can confidently guide them without feeling stressed or overwhelmed (even if itβs hard for you!)
β - Learn comforting strategies to alleviate your childβs school-day anxieties so they can handle each school day with ease and confidence β even if the thought of school sends them into a worry-spiral.
Yes! The most awesome collection of back-to-school tips and tools is waiting for you. Click here to get your FREE lifetime access to the Back-to-School Expert Secret Series today!
If you need help:
- with children who talk back
- targeting the root cause of negative behavior
- managing your temper
- knowing what to do during conflict
- how to recognize behavior as communication
- communicating with older children
This is the week to find support. We're here for you! Thank you for reading, watching, and commenting. And as always - please remember, it's about being conscious - not perfect!
Have a beautiful week!
Warmly,
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p.s. If you upgrade to The Teen Code All Access Pass - every single penny of the proceeds will be donated "Beats Lyrics Leaders," a non-profit that works with Juvenile Detention Centers, Native American Reservations, Middle Schools, and Military Bases to bring music and art resources to youth while engaging in the art of business, social-emotional learning, and leadership. Register for free.
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βTeen Code Summitβ
βBack to School Secretsβ
βConscious Parenting Academyβ
βYouTube Q&Asβ
Level UP Your Communication
βTalking to Kidsβ
βParenting Teens
ββView the Collectionβ
Raise Respectful Kidsβ
βConscious Communicationβ
βBecome a Parent Educatorβ
βSupporting Sensitive Kidsβ
βPeaceful Solutions for Parents & Kidsβ