Is this YOUR wish for your kids, [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]?

Reader,

Last week, after celebrating my first major parenting milestone - my daughter’s 18th birthday - I asked you this question:

If you could imagine YOUR youngest child - and your relationship with them when they reach adulthood - what would that look like?

So many of you shared your deepest wishes…

🏡 “My children chase their dreams without fear and find success in whatever path they choose. They know our home will forever be their safe place." - Alison

🏡 “My wish is that my kids embrace kindness in all that they do. I hope that they always treat others with compassion and understanding and acceptance.“ - Janae

🏡 “My child feels content in her body and calm in her mind. She knows she is surrounded by people who love her." - Stephanie

🏡 “My children have the courage and skills to overcome any challenges that come their way. They face adversity with resilience and determination. They know that I stand behind them every step of the way." - Patricia

🏡 “I hope my child explores the world and keeps her wonder and curiosity. I hope she remains curious about life, learning, and discovering new things, and that she remembers being loved and accepted.” - Sasha

🏡 “My child is able to feel our love, and his self-esteem strengthens. We find comfort in our family, no matter where life takes us.“ Berke

I love these stories of hope. And there is MORE good news, Reader!

Your dreams for your sensitive child are not only achievable, but almost impossible to ignore - once you know how the neurodivergent brain operates.

(This is especially helpful if you’ve been curious about your own traits, which may be similar to your child’s.)

If you’ve been fumbling along through the days - worrying about the future - THIS IS TOTALLY NORMAL.

There is no “Simple Guide to Parenting Neurodivergent Children” handed out in preschool.

And if you’re unaware of - or hiding - your own sensitive and quirky traits, it’s no surprise that you feel overwhelmed by the weight of your child’s reactive or low-and-slow behavior.

It’s like a guessing game sometimes!

Just when you think you’ve figured out their triggers - they go and BLOW UP (or shut down) for completely unknown reasons.
You’ve probably been watching the videos and taking notes - but all the good advice seems to go out the window when you’re in the moment with your child.
Bracing for impact every time you have to say “No.”
The words sound so good in your head, but you can never seem to get them right when you’re setting a limit or trying to soothe a sensory overload.
It’s like you have one good day, and you think you’re finally turning a corner… and then - BAM - another mystery meltdown hits.

Reader, I completely understand. I have been there with my own child (as well as remembering it from my POV as a misunderstood kid).

You can connect AND correct your neurodivergent child without blaming or shaming while helping them cope and handle the stress of things like academics, social situations, transitions, or everyday responsibilities, and YES - you can do it without using punishments or rewards.

(I swear, they only make things worse with ND kids!)

In the next few days, I will show you exactly how. 🙌 But until then, please remember, it's about being conscious - not perfect.

Talk soon!

Warmly,

p.s. Did you miss the video I sent earlier this week about how to see your child's sensitivities as a GOOD thing? Catch it here.