Kids are watching. 👀 What are we teaching?

Reader,

Last time, we talked about giving ourselves permission to pause. So many of you wrote back to say how much you needed that!

Today, I want to remind you why any of this matters.

Empathy, non-punitive discipline, and nervous system regulation aren't just personal growth tools or parenting goals—they're acts of resistance for our children.

💙 To preserve their hearts in the face of a cruel world.

✨ To show them how to set personal boundaries without fear or force.

🙏🏼 To teach them what to do when they're struggling.

We are shaping the next generation. A generation that will either:

Act with humanity or dehumanize.
Use empathy or intimidation.
Choose control or collaboration.

And what we model matters even when we don't say the right thing.

Even when we fall short.

Even when we're dysregulated.

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Do you blame, shame, judge, and criticize yourself? Do you push yourself to perfection or just allow yourself to f*ck it up once in a while?

We only get one shot.

I started talking about conscious parenting online when my daughter was about two. I blinked, and her "childhood" was over.

Now, I'm sending her out into the world. ➡️

✔️ Free.

✔️ Authentic.

✔️ Independent.

It's not always about what we say to our kids. Sometimes, it's about who we're all becoming in the process.

If you feel disconnected from your parenting voice, your kids, or your purpose, I want you to know:

It's okay to screw it up.

I’m NOT one of those parents who’s never lost it.

I’ve definitely yelled. Said things I wish I could take back.

And yeah... there’s been plenty of heart-to-heart repair in our house. And that’s okay. We figured it out as we went. Because that’s what parenting really is.

Your path? It’s not going to look like mine. And that’s the point.

Your reasons for reacting might be totally different—but what matters is that you get curious about them.

Once you do, you can start shifting the stuff that’s been holding you back.

That’s how real change starts - not by being perfect, but by understanding why we do what we do.

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Not to "fix" yourself. But to support yourself when you're in the murky middle place.

You're not failing. You're feeling. And that matters.

Remember, conscious, not perfect! Talk soon!

Warmly,

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