[VIDEO] Be more influential with your kids in 60 seconds. 📲

Reader!

I was thinking the other day about how we can ensure our kids take our advice…

🤞🏻 And ALSO internalize that advice to:

a) learn from it and
b) eventually make good decisions on their own.

What is the secret to being an influential parent? If you want your kids to take your advice, take 60 seconds for yourself today to watch this.

Sometimes, we doubt everything about our relationship with our kids or wonder if we’re being too soft or weak.

I don't know how to address this without making things worse.

I feel frustrated and helpless because no matter what I do, it feels like my children are drifting further away - especially the older they get.

My requests go unanswered, and it’s incredibly exhausting to keep after everybody to contribute when I’m already spent.

There is one thing at the root of our hopelessness and despair.

But it’s hard to develop self-awareness when we’re stressed out. It’s only natural to seek advice and question our abilities. 🤔

Or wonder how we can encourage our kids to open up without feeling like we’re prying or being overbearing - but also ensuring that our advice is landing the way we hoped.

Maybe you’ve been critical in the past and want to change that.

"My child doesn't talk to me about their feelings or daily experiences." "My child is acting out or misbehaving frequently, and I don't know why." "I feel like there's a wall between us, and we're not as close as we used to be." "I'm not sure if I'm being consistent with my rules and expectations, and it's confusing my child."

How can you rebuild trust after so many years?

How we talk to kids isn’t just about what we say when we’re setting limits.

It’s about showing kids that we “see” them.

Worried you're not getting through to your kids or that your words (or actions) might be pushing them away? Yeah, I FEEL that! (If you need help, these cards break it down.)

You CAN build a stronger, more trusting relationship with your child.

When we choose words that uplift rather than judge, we can effectively use all those amazing conflict resolution strategies that preserve trust and respect.

But, creating an environment where our children feel safe to express themselves (and where we understand the root cause of their behaviors so we can address them constructively) requires some transformations on our end.

Getting self-regulated and creating a nonjudgmental space where your kids feel comfortable sharing without fear of repercussions is NOT easy!!

(If you’ve had a challenging childhood and need support moving past that conditioning - I have a program for that).

You've got this. One foot in front of the other. Today is a NEW day.

I promise that whenever you take this tiny step with your kids—watch this 1-minute tip—you’ll add so much significance and value to your guidance!

But please remember, conscious - not perfect!

Warmly,

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