Let’s make ONE thing easier - talking to your kids and making requests they will respect.
Reader! Empathy is great, but what happens when you’re acknowledging feelings and it's not getting you much more than frustrated? 😩 How do you uncover your true child’s motivations and help them shift? Do you get stuck on the words and end up saying things like…?
When you read those words, do you feel cared for and ready to try again, or does it sound a little bit... “I told you so” shamey and guilt-trippy? Hint: It describes how my communication sounds when I’m trying to be conscious but too dysregulated to get there. 😬 Don't get me wrong, it’s an honorable attempt. But if we stay:
It's the fastest route BACK to using power and control (and a cycle of chaos) because it’s almost impossible to use more effective language if we’re in the wrong mindset. Maybe you hoped "acknowledging feelings" was all you needed to do to get the results you wanted and haven’t fully investigated the root of the challenge. You’re so close!!Knowing that empathy is important is crucial. But understanding how to be empathetic and STILL SET LIMITS without blame, shame, judgment, or guilt - that’s another story. Life can be overwhelming enough. Let’s make ONE thing easier - talking to your kids and making requests they will respect. Here’s my solution. Buy One + Get the WHOLE DARN course free. What??
Why should you do this?So you can feel less stressed when your kids are refusing, resisting, and unable to stay regulated.
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