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This made me burst into tears.

Reader! The first time I heard this song in our weekly "Family Song" music circle, I spontaneously burst into tears. Like a piece of my soul just cracked open. How could anyone ever tell youyou were anything less than beautiful?How could anyone ever tell youyou were less than whole?How could anyone fail to noticethat your loving is a miracle?How deeply you're connected to my soul. - Lyrics by Libby Roderick It hit me like a wave. Not because I didn't know those words should be true, but...
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Feeling like what works for others isn’t working for you?

Reader! What season of parenting are you in? Are you on-call 24/7 in a starring role? Or are you more of a background player, watching from the sidelines? These days, I’m mainly in the background (hoping for more face time). My daughter’s away at school, “living her life,” as she puts it. The days and decisions at this stage are different, but the hum of “Am I doing this right?” still lingers. And walking the path of neurodivergence (AuDHD) has always spiced up our conversations. Over time,...
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Kids are watching. 👀 What are we teaching?

Reader, Last time, we talked about giving ourselves permission to pause. So many of you wrote back to say how much you needed that! Today, I want to remind you why any of this matters. Empathy, non-punitive discipline, and nervous system regulation aren't just personal growth tools or parenting goals—they're acts of resistance for our children. 💙 To preserve their hearts in the face of a cruel world. ✨ To show them how to set personal boundaries without fear or force. 🙏🏼 To teach them what to...
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Is it a message or a meltdown? 🤔

I'm so grateful for all the well wishes for my surgery!! 🙏🏼 Thank you!! It's nerve-wracking for sure, but by the time you read this, I hope I'm on my way to healing after years of vertigo, hearing loss, and other icky symptoms. Even though I'll be out for a bit, I've got all kinds of things scheduled for you while I'm away! 🫶🏼 Lori "Reader - Kids are often blamed for behaviors they're using to soothe and regulate themselves. Constant movement/talking. Not starting projects. Being late....
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[DOWNLOAD] Building your child's emotional maturity.

Reader! I used to think that if I did all the "right" things (all the things my parents *didn't* do), raising my daughter would be smooth sailing. 😬 If I left behind the power struggles of my childhood… If I gave her space to feel her emotions… If I respected her autonomy and let her say “No”… Then surely, our relationship would be easy-peasy. But then - She felt her emotions. A LOT. She said “No” constantly. She made her own choices… and ignored my advice. Wait - wasn’t conscious parenting...
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⚠️ We start TOMMOROW! Last chance to join for a fresh start for you & your child.

⏳ In Less Than 24 Hours... We Begin! Reader - ✨ Chaos to Cooperation LIVE 2025 ✨ is happening TOMORROW - and this time, I’m hosting it LIVE for the first time in 3 years! 🎉 This isn’t just another parenting class. It’s a reset. A breath of fresh air. 🌿 In just 10 days, you’ll gain the clarity, confidence, and connection you’ve been searching for - without second-guessing yourself or resorting to strategies that just don’t work. 💡 Just 10 days? Yes. And here’s why… Twelve years ago, in January...
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✔️ The secret to influence without force.

Reader - Last year, my daughter started college, and I went back to work as an elementary school teacher. 😲 And while I didn't go in blind to the realities of the work, I sure was faced with some surprisingly stressful moments. Ya know what was really easy (and you might relate)? Falling into the cycle of control. 😣 Yes, there's pressure to get things done, and you're tired of the 13 millionth question about pencils, bathrooms, free time, and computer chargers. But ugh. How did I succumb to...
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10 days to confidence & connection 🙌🏻

Reader - When I was young, my mom always used to say to me, "You can't love anyone else until you love yourself." She believed it with all her heart. But looking back, I wonder - was she trying to convince me or herself? It took me years to understand what she was really trying to say: ✨ You have to stand up for yourself.✨ You can't pour from an empty cup.✨ You need to trust yourself before you can teach your kids to do the same. Maybe you're great at managing emotions but struggle with...
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🤔 Find the fine line between being helpful but not too lenient.

Reader - If you're anything like me - you reeeeaaally want to be calm and nonjudgmental in your communication. But, like many things, it's a work in progress (sometimes more work than progress 😬). We have this big "super goal" of using conscious communication to resolve conflict peacefully - but how many of us are really feeling (somewhat) peaceful when we try? Being conscious and non-punitive doesn’t mean you absolve your children of accountability or responsibility. But how do we find that...
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