ONE thing I learned to do that made a HUGE difference.
about 23 hours ago â˘Â 3 min readReader - Every time my daughter plops down on the couch and slides up next to me to willingly share her day or seek my advice or my "listening ear," I pinch myself. This is what I dreamed of when she was born. I'm SO incredibly grateful for one important accomplishment: I have a rock-solid relationship with my young adult child (something I didn't have with my parents). I share this not to boast about my family (because - it's about being conscious, not perfect), but hopefully, it will...
READ POSTIs this YOUR wish for your kids, [FIRST NAME GOES HERE]?
3 days ago â˘Â 2 min readReader, Last week, after celebrating my first major parenting milestone - my daughterâs 18th birthday - I asked you this question: If you could imagine YOUR youngest child - and your relationship with them when they reach adulthood - what would that look like? So many of you shared your deepest wishes⌠đĄ âMy children chase their dreams without fear and find success in whatever path they choose. They know our home will forever be their safe place." - Alison đĄ âMy wish is that my kids embrace...
READ POST[DOWNLOAD] For parents of sensitive or neurodivergent children (or anyone who doesn't understand their child's behavior).
5 days ago â˘Â 3 min readReader, Are you the parent (or teacher) of a sensitive or neurodivergent child whoâs tried every behavioral support available and still finds it incredibly challenging to make any real, lasting changes or improvements in their behavior? Is it possible that youâve been misled about the root cause of their struggles? (Not sure if this is your child - this video and checklist will help you find out.) If youâre secretly thinking - This meltdown feels like manipulation. I donât want to coddle my...
READ POSTThis is not what I expected.
25 days ago â˘Â 2 min readReader, It's valid for you to want - communicating with your kids - to feel easier and more peaceful (even if those states are ever-shifting). But does it feel impossible to achieve? If you're nodding yes, don't miss my new interview with trauma therapist and author, Ingrid Clayton, Ph.D. Okay, so... Maybe you're feeling judged by others.Like "conscious parenting" is BS.Tired of trying to regulate everyone's feelings?Wish you could just state the limit and BE DONE with it? But instead of...
READ POSTSometimes, I mess up so badly. đŠ
about 1 month ago â˘Â 2 min readReader, I don't know what to say. Except... sometimes, I mess up the tech so badly (hello, glitchy coupons) that it's embarrassing. With that, please accept my sincere apologies if you tried to get all the free things I promised you on Monday but instead were met with - Invalid error codes when using the SPRINGFLING coupon. Problems adding the Conscious Communication Course to your cart. OBSTACLES to taking advantage of the access to this course. First, it's all fixed. Again, I'm really...
READ POSTLetâs make ONE thing easier - talking to your kids and making requests they will respect.
about 1 month ago â˘Â 2 min readReader! Empathy is great, but what happens when youâre acknowledging feelings and it's not getting you much more than frustrated? đŠ How do you uncover your true childâs motivations and help them shift? Do you get stuck on the words and end up saying things likeâŚ? I understand youâre frustrated, but weâve talked about this. You can be mad, but itâs not nice to hit people. When you feel upset, what did I tell you to do? Now, letâs try again so you can do better. When you read those words, do...
READ POST[VIDEO] Problem-solve with your kids without losing your patience.
about 2 months ago â˘Â 1 min readReader, I've worked hard to learn how to stop triggering my child into defensive mode with my words. As a sensitive parent with a sensitive kid, I'm all too familiar with reactionary behavior (mine and hers). And it's easy to get frustrated and lose our patience with kids who: Complain and criticize. Bother their siblings. Disrupt the daily routine. Fight over everything. It's exhausting, and we're tired of telling them repeatedly or reciting rules we KNOW they know. So what if you could stop...
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