[VIDEO] Problem-solve with your kids without losing your patience.
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Reader, I've worked hard to learn how to stop triggering my child into defensive mode with my words. As a sensitive parent with a sensitive kid, I'm all too familiar with reactionary behavior (mine and hers). And it's easy to get frustrated and lose our patience with kids who:
It's exhausting, and we're tired of telling them repeatedly or reciting rules we KNOW they know. So what if you could stop setting off your child's danger zone alarm and take a different approach? One that has you building bridges instead of walls. I know I would have little room to empathize if I constantly spoke about my child's behavior without recognizing the message it was sending me. It would leave me focused on her changing her instead of helping her navigate her needs. I swear, you can problem-solve and collaborate with your kids to help them manage their own behavior without losing your patience! In this quick video, I'm sharing what interferes with our ability to see solutions and a few ideas for how we can turn things around. If you're trying to be conscious of your words but still seeing kids who can't control themselves, watch this video to learn how you can problem-solve without losing your patience. After you've finished, leave me a comment, or email me and let me know what you think. What's the most difficult part of this shift for you? Thank you so much for watching! Until next time, please remember, it's about being conscious - not perfect! Warmly, p.s. Never miss an email! Check out the story posts archive here. Spread the Love Level UP Your Communication Raise Respectful Kids |
