Starting tomorrow (holding the door open).


Hi Reader,

I haven't sent a note since my last email about behavior not being the whole story.

I remember once avoiding a huge blowup and steering my 13-year-old towards flexibility and endurance with only two words. 🤯

I would have never thought to do this if I had been focused on her behavior.

I'll share what I said, but first, I wanted to check in before we begin our 3-week series on communicating with kids who resist being controlled.

Those sensitive, sassy, spirited kids... You know, the kids who are more reactive, more resistant, and sometimes more intense than you can handle.

➡️ In this class, we're moving past language that forces kids to "comply," and learning how to teach the exact skills that they're missing.

It's not a behavior-fixing class.
We definitely don't do that here.

But we will slow down, look at language, power, and our nervous systems so that when your kids are:

  • refusing to get dressed
  • ignoring repeated requests
  • yelling "NO!" and collapsing on the floor

You'll know what to do without being harsh or controlling.

I know live series are hard to commit to. Here's a quick rundown of what to know if you are thinking of joining.

We start tomorrow, Tuesday, at 12:30pm EST.
You're welcome to join or watch the replays.
You're welcome to come and listen quietly.
There's no pressure.

And if this isn't the right moment, registration will stay open so that you can join later if you decide.

The series runs on Tuesdays:
2/10, 2/17, & 2/24 @12:30pm EST

If you want to read more about the series and what we'll be exploring, you can find that here and here.

If you're ready to join us, there are two ways:

Register for the live series only:

$67.00

If your words keep making things worse, not better —this series is for you.

OR
Enroll in an on-demand series, and the live class is included. Find access links in your classroom under "live sessions."

Oh, and those two words I used to prevent a blowup?
"You're safe."

I'll tell you more about how those simple words, which seemed completely unrelated to the situation, are exactly what developed the skills I wanted to see in my kid.

I'm excited to hold this space and help you create new responses too

And if you're not joining us, I'm glad you're still here, reading and thinking differently about how to communicate with kids.

Talk soon!

Warmly,


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